This is Part Two of my previous post. Part two reaffirms everything stated in part one. The interview continued with conversations about the places they had lived. These places had differed in weather, accommodations, size, and distance from family and friends; the many aspects that we look for when making a move to a new place. Through this array of circumstances she stated that they had never lived somewhere they weren’t happy. These words hit a nerve deep inside of me and all I could think about is the unhappiness I have felt in places I have lived. I know my facial expression expose me and I felt as though my feelings were laid out on the table we were sitting at. After she said this my mind began to wander. All I could think about is how I almost never feel content where I am? It’s not like every place I have been brought me misery. I have truly loved several places in my life and felt content. I started pondering whether a place can make a person happy. It is very possible for someone to be in the middle of paradise and wish to be somewhere else.
I feel that part of this depends on how happy you are with yourself, your support group and your career path. When you are truly happy with yourself, you are more resilient to outside influences. You may not mind that tiny apartment or that you live across the world from your closest friends. You are better able to look at a situation in a positive way. A support group of friends and family can contribute to a person’s happiness as well. Just knowing that you have positive and supportive people in your life can give you a sense of security. However it is all about balance because relying on these people too much can cause you to not think or feel for yourself. I feel that one’s career path can assist with happiness and will be discussed in part three of this post.
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